Do we want a BFC Memorial Forum?

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Poll ended at Sat Apr 21, 2012 7:58 am

Yes good idea - please go ahead
20
56%
No bad idea - let RIP threads go into the BFC archives
9
25%
I have a better plan - please see my comment below
1
3%
I don't care - do what you want
6
17%
 
Total votes : 36

Re: Do we want a BFC Memorial Forum?

Postby Kurt » Thu Dec 08, 2016 7:20 pm

nowonmai wrote:I know, I didn't mean it like that, it's just the way we filter out the details. The world would be unmanageable otherwise. 71 years probably felt like the blink of an eye and all that life that could have been.


No, I know. I agree with you. We do filter out the details. I know I did until you reminded me that we all did.

One of my friends killed himself when he was 14. 34 years ago. You think about what could have been in his life and then you think about how 100 years from now to most people concerned he and I may as well have died at about the same time.

That and other things is why I never trust people who ask us to "look at the big picture" because if they really did and really believed in doing that themselves they would not see much use at all in doing anything. To the person who says "hey everyone, lets look at the small picture here since in the big picture the sun hits the Red giant phase and everything we are and everything we were will be completely annihilated and nothing in the big picture will give two shits even as the oceans boil and the mountains melt....so we really need a better brand of dry erase marker for the whiteboard." I would trust that person.
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Re: Do we want a BFC Memorial Forum?

Postby nowonmai » Thu Dec 08, 2016 7:54 pm

Kurt wrote:
nowonmai wrote:I know, I didn't mean it like that, it's just the way we filter out the details. The world would be unmanageable otherwise. 71 years probably felt like the blink of an eye and all that life that could have been.


No, I know. I agree with you. We do filter out the details. I know I did until you reminded me that we all did.

One of my friends killed himself when he was 14. 34 years ago. You think about what could have been in his life and then you think about how 100 years from now to most people concerned he and I may as well have died at about the same time.

That and other things is why I never trust people who ask us to "look at the big picture" because if they really did and really believed in doing that themselves they would not see much use at all in doing anything. To the person who says "hey everyone, lets look at the small picture here since in the big picture the sun hits the Red giant phase and everything we are and everything we were will be completely annihilated and nothing in the big picture will give two shits even as the oceans boil and the mountains melt....so we really need a better brand of dry erase marker for the whiteboard." I would trust that person.


Unfortunately I have always struggled with the essential pointlessness of it all, but you do have to go through the motions.
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Re: Do we want a BFC Memorial Forum?

Postby Kurt » Thu Dec 08, 2016 9:13 pm

If nothing really matters, then pretending it does matter doesn't matter either, so I do not understand why nihilists get so pissy about it.
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Re: Do we want a BFC Memorial Forum?

Postby denise » Wed Dec 14, 2016 2:46 am

nowonmai wrote:
denise wrote:In my case my best friend and my son's best friend.

In both instances nothing less than heaven will suffice.


Flectere si nequeo superos, Acheronta movebo.


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