by Alphabet » Fri Jan 20, 2023 9:56 pm
el3so,
Depends on the state. It's always jail. If you are in jail, you can't work, that debt compounds, so you are now continuing to "defy" a court order. That can lead to prison. Oh, you also lose your passport, your driver's license, and if you are somehow able to avoid jail, your paycheck is automatically garnished before you get to do essential shit like, eat, pay rent, maintain a vehicle to get you to work if you live in the sticks where there is no mass transit, and on and on and on.
Chick lied to you about it being yours, so you signed the birth certificate in good faith, then later it turns out it isn't yours? Fuck you, you're paying until that kid is 18. Zero repercussions for the woman.
Have a special skill that you can use to make money overseas and pay the support? You're fucked because divorce lawyers 100% have the woman throw a DV charge in any proceedings. Court almost always grants it with no proof, and say bye bye to that security clearance that would get you that job. I've read contracts where you could literally have multiple DUIs, and be ok to a point, but a DV, even if you were eventually found not guilty, and they won't even look at you.
For context, my divorce was legit probably the best ever. We agreed on everything 50/50, kids spent 50/50 with us respectively, no alimony, no child support because wed basically just be giving each other the same cash over and pver, clear split. Legit chick.
So, no personal bias here, just going off fact, and what I've seen other men go through. Unless you are divorcing a down ass cool chick, which is like a negative of a percentage of a percentage in the US, you will get fucked. If you have kids with her, you will get gangbanged by the courts. Period.
And people wonder why guys like Tate get traction.