so shes coming over again tonight

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so shes coming over again tonight

Postby Fansy » Mon Nov 01, 2010 2:29 pm

it was pretty good cause bout half way through the sex i was like 'o i should tell you something i basically wont cum ever' and she was like 'o cool im sorta like that too i gotta trick myself and hold my breath and its really hard during sex' and we laughed and made some jokes that were pretty funny and moved back to makin out a bit later and cleaned up a bit after that.

so the prob is shes not as attractive as she used to be when i hooked up with her before. a good thing is shes moving to another state in 3 weeks so i wont have to break up with her. im worried she may be trying to see first if im worth staying for and second if i want her to stay, two quandaries for which i will come up short (lol thas wut she said lolooll). also, which entirely makes it trouble, shes sometimes got an odor that is strong enuff to make you dizzy and limp and second of all shes tight to the point that if theres no lub (lol who carries lub) its a pain in the ass just to get in her.

so shes coming over again tonight to watvh a movie but im hoping 1) she doesnt wanna hook up, 2) if she does, she does somethin bout that odor (i might just have to cut off my hand if it doesnt come out), 3) shes not growing closer to me and thinkin that i should bring up the issue of her staying or moving. the last is least likely but i dunno if she keeps comin over it could become a real problem.

plus i dont know how to tell these girls just because i rub up against their skin affectionately it has nothing to do with them (except for their naked presence) or how much i like them, i just like warm skin in bed. i think every girl ive ever hooked up with thinks ive been in love with them cause of my affinity for their skin, which i surmise they confuse for the expression of my tender loving care for them. at least she uses birth control.

honestly jesus if she just washes that odor away i promise ill go to church sunday and not look at porn or use the lord's name in vain for at least a week. i dunno shes just an old friend/sweetheart and i dont want to hurt her feelings but do want to enjoy the parts of her company that are enjoyable. o well lol at least the film we gonn watch is book of eli, when he cuts off that guys hand its the best
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby coldharvest » Mon Nov 01, 2010 2:33 pm

She's using you....drop her like a stone.
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby Fansy » Mon Nov 01, 2010 4:45 pm

i would never get any kind of sex or get to touch girls skin if i used that as my guide. when if ever are women not using you and/or what even constitutes that type of action/behavior by a female with whom you are intimate. im sincerely curious what that type of interaction would be, and i really doubt it exists.
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby rickshaw92 » Mon Nov 01, 2010 7:34 pm

coldharvest wrote:She's using you....drop her like a stone.





Yea, but I am the defacto BFC advice guy and I think he should blow a load or two in her face. Do disrespect big fella, just sayin.
Im reallly fuclimg pissed but fespite that I can still hit a tarfet at 1000m plus. mayVRVe bnot tonight but it qint beyond the wit if man. Nowhammy.
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby Rapier09 » Tue Nov 02, 2010 5:57 am

She will give it up when the right time comes around.
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby michelle in alaska » Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:05 am

wait.
didn't you/we all go thru a similair scenario with you, awhile back?

and i KnOW i've posted this poem here, before...

[img]A Last Confession
W.B. Yeats

What lively lad most pleasured me
Of all that with me lay?
I answer that I gave my soul
And loved in misery,
But had great pleasure with a lad
That I loved bodily.

Flinging from his arms I laughed
To think his passion such
He fancied that I gave a soul
Did but our bodies touch,
And laughed upon his breast to think
Beast gave beast as much.

I gave what other women gave
That stepped out of their clothes.
But when this soul, its body off,
Naked to naked goes,
He it has found shall find therein
What none other knows,

And give his own and take his own
And rule in his own right;
And though it loved in misery
Close and cling so tight,
There's not a bird of day that dare
Extinguish that delight.



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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby Fansy » Tue Nov 02, 2010 1:08 pm

michelle in alaska wrote:wait.
didn't you/we all go thru a similair scenario with you, awhile back?


all my engagements with females are similar and parodies of real relationships; i'm also the only BFCer (as i recall) that every 6 months or so posts something from his lovelife, whether to provoke from fellow denizens anger, laughs, chastisement, or praise.

so yes, i've had several scenarios which I've shared here. the moral is usually either that relationships are hopeless and cannot bring happiness, i am self-destructive, women are inferior, parasitic and devious, or women should behave or perform in a certain way (esp. regarding sex).

i stand by all my stories and their morals, and as yet am still genuinely interested in what I saw to be the implication that somehow a male and female could interact without the female in some way using or planning to use the male.
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby coldharvest » Tue Nov 02, 2010 1:28 pm

Fansy wrote:i'm also the only BFCer (as i recall) that every 6 months or so posts something from his lovelife

You're the only one who feels he needs to......but it is good entertainment.
....and in answer to this query:
im sincerely curious what that type of interaction would be, and i really doubt it exists.

Try not to treat them like they're another species and do shit with them that you'd do anyway.
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby marie-angelique » Tue Nov 02, 2010 2:22 pm

coldharvest wrote:Try not to treat them like they're another species and do shit with them that you'd do anyway.

indeed.

also - stop spending time with married/taken, self-destructive loser types that reinforce your negative preconceptions.
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby michelle in alaska » Wed Nov 03, 2010 11:42 am

stop spending time with married/taken, self-destructive loser types that reinforce your negative preconceptions.


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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby Skirita » Wed Nov 03, 2010 12:33 pm

Fansy wrote:i would never get any kind of sex or get to touch girls skin if i used that as my guide.


Then skin her and masturbate. The obvious solution.

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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby marie-angelique » Wed Nov 03, 2010 4:28 pm

i was thinking the same thing!

perhaps a bit of reading would help, non?
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby Fansy » Thu Nov 04, 2010 6:09 am

coldharvest wrote:
Fansy wrote:i'm also the only BFCer (as i recall) that every 6 months or so posts something from his lovelife

You're the only one who feels he needs to...


this is tautological since youve undoubtedly ascribed to me this need to share my love life based on your observing my actual sharing of it. i'd counter that i dont feel i need to share it but instead i offer these gifts voluntarily and without stipulation. i recognize that most of you could benefit from hearing both my wisdom and folly. plus youre all just a miserable bunch of stick-in-the-muds and so id like to see you shitbirds improve your acts and lives.

Try not to treat them like they're another species and do shit with them that you'd do anyway.


this is not an example of the interaction bout which i desired to know - sounds like youre giving me advice on how to achieve this putatively possible state of interaction. but i mean i dont think it exists anyways and even if it did before i sought it out i'd like to review a scenario which might portray the behaviors/thoughts/relationship in play from both sides.

and regardin doin things i mean they dont like watchin my porn i swear nor reading journal articles on the same stuff i like to and no one likes my tastes/methods of film watchin. and theyre illogical, mean and they smell. thats all besides the point since i still cant even imagine a scenario with relevant boy-girl relationship where someone is not using the other, consciously, accidentally, or subconsciously, (but specifically the female using the male)

also - stop spending time with married/taken, self-destructive loser types that reinforce your negative preconceptions.


same issue from above applies; no one is describing what happens in non-using relationships or how the people in it might interact, but instead youre suggesting ways i could allegedly attain such a relationship (which i fear are really just ways to attain a mindset wherein youve suppressed recognition of how youre using and being used). ill play along tho if only cause i realize that a relationship not based on self-interests prolly doesnt exist and if it does is prolly extremely hard to describe sufficiently (if only because almost no one knows what its like).

In re loser types:
1) maybe i spend time with these types because thats all i can get
2) maybe i spend time with these types because thats all i deserve
3) maybe they spend time with me because they cant get better
4) maybe they spend time with me because they dont deserve better

In re winner types:
1) maybe i dont spend time with these types because i cant get them
2) maybe i dont spend time with these types because i dont deserve them
3) maybe they dont spend time with me because they can get better
4) maybe they dont spend time with me because they deserve better

as a matter of practicality, i assert the truth of all 'deserve' statements above. the 'can' statements are of less knowable truth, but in a state of uncertainty (such as being unable to know for sure if one can get a better mate or not), I'd argue that action-inducing judgments emanate from deserve statements. that is, the objective potential of what one can get isnt really as important as normative value judgments regardin what one feels like he/she should get; and as long as i and others operate with these beliefs about what we deserve (which then inform our actions/decisions), im pretty sure im gonna be stuck with 'loser' types (and theyre gonna be stuck with me) for the duration if you know wut im sayin.

for the record tho i dont think theyre losers. to label or demean vulnerable others in such a way is your prerogative, of course, but i suggest you acknowledge and reform that unfair, judgmental, and ultimately 'loser' quality of your own behavior too.

plus 'loser' women complain less and put out more. which really are the most important things if all youre needin is to satisfy basic evolutionary urges every once in a while. which i think we all agree consists chiefly of vicious blowjobs and anal
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby lmetrucking » Thu Nov 04, 2010 6:05 pm

I couldnt have ended that rant more explicitly hilarious if I had 6 months to think about it.
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Re: so shes coming over again tonight

Postby michelle in alaska » Sat Nov 06, 2010 8:17 am

I couldnt have ended that rant more explicitly hilarious if I had 6 months to think about it.

well.
it would have taken some people six months to spit a rant like that out.
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